Signing Off

Greetings to all,

What can I say? The two weeks went fast as they always do. For a little while the house was a steady stream of activity once again. We had a lot of fun, Brian saw many of his friends, and I think we were able to relax a little and just take it all in.

We were able to spend a little time up north together which is always special. Special thanks to Aunt Peggy and Uncle Brad for showing Brian the splendors of the Harriett Club, some good cigars, and an exclusive Lake Ada tour. Brian really enjoyed it.

We had dinner together at the "Fireside Supper Club" outside of Walker. While we were there we learned that the owner's (Kathy) son (Carl) was just deployed to Iraq the same day Brian returned to the States (July4). On our way out we stopped by just to let Kathy know that Carl would be in our prayers- she just broke down in tears. We spent some time trying to comfort her and telling her it would be "ok". We certainly understood what she was feeling and I hope we helped. The reality and emotions of all of this comes from everywhere; even in Walker, Minnesota in a little supper-club with nobody else in it. We're staying in touch with Kathy now.

Brian made it back to California on Saturday and is going to be starting a pretty hectic schedule. He'll be in Hawthorne, Nevada and Pensacola, Florida for some work and training over the next two months, and then back to Camp Pendleton for Squad Leader School. We hope he'll be back for the Holidays this year.

And, it's quiet again here as we get on with our own lives. We found out a few weeks ago that we're going to be grandparents. We are so excited for Lindsey and Jason. They are going to be wonderful parents and will be adding a whole new dimension to their lives. I'm sure it will change ours too.

So, life marches on. This whole experience has been quite the rush. While we're so thankful Brian is home and in the States for awhile, we still pray for Carl and everyone else who is still over there. We also remember the sacrifice of those for which this thing will never be over. We owe them a lot.

The Certificate of Commendation Brian received while he was in Iraq is sitting on the coffee table in our living room and I show it to anyone and everyone who walks through the door. Stop by anytime and I'll show it to you. We'd love to see you. We want to again thank everyone for your support and prayers. You did make a difference.

Signing Off

Semper Fi

Welcome Home Marine

Hello to all.

Just thought I'd let everyone know that Brian made it home early Saturday morning as planned and it's been wonderful to have him home. He's taking his time to get re-adjusted as it's been quite a culture change for him. We told him to just take the time he needs to do whatever he wants and he's taking us up on that. Here are a couple of photos from the past few days:

Lindsey and Brian

Welcome Home!!
(Laura added a nice touch
with the sign for the front yard)



While we're taking a little breath, the reality of losing five Minnesota heroes in Iraq and Afghanistan over the past week has kept things in perspective. While we are very, very proud, very relieved, and very thankful that Brian is home, our hearts go out to the families facing an entirely different reality as a result of all this. We appreciate their sacrifice and need to keep them in our prayers.

Silent Vigil Sunday Night For the
Three National Guard Troops
Killed In Basra

Laura and I again want to thank everyone for your prayers and your support. They made a huge difference for us.

We'll keep you posted here as we can. Now, it's "up to the cabin" for the weekend for a little family time.

Semper Fi

Still Taking It In

Greetings to all.

It's taken a few days for the news to sink in. We have learned to not plan for anything and to take things one day at a time but had mentally prepared for another one or two months before we could start thinking of getting Brian out of Iraq and back in the states. Needless to say, realizing he was coming home on the 4th (in just two days) was a pretty significant shock to our system.

Here's what we know today:

*Brian did make it back to California on the 4th of July (via Germany, Iceland, North Carolina, and then California)

*He's doing well, and it has been wonderful to be able to really talk, and not talk in code.

*He has been going through his "debriefing" and other stuff for the past week and will continue next week.

*He is planning on being in Minnesota on July 17 and will be here until August 1. That's at least the plan at this point- always subject to change, but at least we have some markers out there.

I'll continue to update information on the blog as we get it. It's still therapy for me- and hopefully keeps everyone informed.

But, I also wanted to share some final thoughts as we close out this part of the journey.


When we got into this whole military thing Laura and I had absolutely no idea what to expect. There was no "guidebook for parents" to help you understand all of the emotions that go along with it, especially when confronting the realities of war and putting a member of your family in Harm's Way. I am sure every parent deals with the emotions in different ways, but the emotions are very real no matter how you address them (or don't address them). Regardless of our approach, I think Laura and I have come out of this part of the experience stronger and with a different perspective on many things than we had when we started.

But the real heroes are the parents and families of those who have made the ultimate sacrifice to protect the freedoms of our own country and of those in Iraq and Afghanistan. Since this started, I've tried to attend the funerals of those who have made the ultimate sacrifice when I could. Nick Turcotte was from Maple Grove and attended high school with Lindsey, and Daniel Olsen just graduated from Eden Prairie High School. Both were killed in Iraq. I felt attending these services was the least I could do. They were emotional, powerful, and showed me the real meaning of our country and the sacrifices others have made.








Nick Turcotte (Maple Grove, MN)

Daniel Olsen (Eden Prairie, MN)

We are unbelieveably thankful Brian is out of a combat zone for a little while. But, we'll also never forget those still serving, those who have served, and those who gave everything they had to make our lives what they are today. We all owe them a lot.

Semper Fi

Brian Is Coming Home- July 4, 2009

"This is the Family Readiness Officer for the First Intelligence Battalion, to inform you that your Marine, Corporal Brian M. Zdychnec will be arriving in California on Saturday, July 4, 2009."

This is the message left on our phone Thursday night (July 2) and was the first we heard anything about Brian coming home. Apparently, he received his orders about a week ago- and was trying to surprise us, but the logistics just didn't work out.

Suffice it to say, Laura and I are still trying to take it all in- but I wanted to get this out to anybody who has been following our blog- just to let you know.

We did talk to him from Germany last night, and he left a message on my phone this morning from North Carolina. So, he's heading in the right direction.

We still don't know a lot of the details- but here's what we know so far:

1. He'll be getting back to California some time today (July 4- what a way to celebrate the Fourth of July)

2. He'll be going through a debriefing in California and then will likely be heading to Minnesota for post-deployment leave (but we don't know when)

3. Yes, he will be re-deploying to Afghanistan for his third deployment most likely after the first of the year. (Brian volunteered for this tour as he could have just ridden out his enlistment from California if he wanted to- we've known for awhile- he told us it was something he had to do- it was the reason he joined the Marines in the first place.) But, we aren't going to be thinking about that one for awhile. We've learned to appreciate each day- and take it "Sunday-to-Sunday; Chow-to-Chow". We're going to take a breath for awhile.

I'll continue to update this Blog with other information as we get it.

Laura and I want to thank each and every one of you who have supported us through this time. You are all the best. It has been an amazing emotional and spiritual journey and we're so thankful Brian has made it back home. I've said before that a deployment seems like a never-ending story where you really don't know what the ending will be. There are many possibilities- some you just don't want to think about. Thank God this chapter ended on a very happy (and thankful) note.

But, I will also never forget to think about and pray for those who remain in Iraq. I'll also be praying for the Marines (and other service members) doing some heavy-duty kick-ass work today in Afghanistan. These men and women are the reason we can celebrate a day like today in our country. I'll never forget it.

Have a great Fourth of July. I know we will.

Semper Fi

A Day of Change In Iraq

So, it's National Sovereignty Day in Iraq. Today, June 30, is the day that all combat troops are supposed to be withdrawn from the major cities in Iraq. We really don't know what that all means for Brian as they have also stated that intelligence capabilities will continue. Plus, we really don't know where he is right now (we think we know) and Brian is both combat and intelligence so we don't know where that all falls for him. We'll keep you posted- but he probably won't be able to tell us much.

While this is an important day for the Iraqi people, the deaths of four of our soldiers today emphasized that this deal is far from over. As I've said in my previous postings- getting complacent about all of this is my worst fear. I know our military won't get complacent, but our country might. At Obama's press conference the other day there was not one question asked about either Iraq or Afghanistan. Unfortunately, most of our country has moved on to other things as we always do- we (along with all of our troops still serving) will continue to live with it every day until they are all home.

One of Saddam's former deputies came out urging the Iraqi people and the insurgents to keep fighting Americans "wherever they may be in Iraq". Believe me, these nut-jobs won't stop fighting just because our troops are strategically taking a different position. Once again, I hope we remind our country that this isn't over yet. We owe it to those still serving- and for those who have already given the ultimate sacrifice to see it through.

Enough of that.

Getting mail to Brian is still on hold. Ironically, he was able to send a case of some of his extra gear to us and it got here in less than a week. So, mail can go out of Iraq- it just has the problems when it tries to get there. The case he sent still had quite a bit of Iraqi desert sand on it even after the travel. The stuff is just like a fine gold powder. Brian called the other evening while he was waiting out another one of the famous "sandstorms" of this stuff blowing around. He said it was 3:00 in the afternoon and it was just black outside from the storm.

This weekend we'll be celebrating the 4th of July. Last year Brian was home for post-deployment leave and was able to spend some time with us at the cabin- his first time back in two years. All I can say is that it was a classic event. Being the only sober one in a boat with 6 others at 10:30 at night while watching the fireworks from the lake was quite the experience. I believe Brian became a legend in Walker last year when he introduced "Man Shots" to our humble community. It's never been the same.

So, I'm posting some photos from last year below. I told Brian we will all be thinking of him this year- and we'll make sure he catches up to us when he gets back home.

The "traditional meal" with our extended family last 4th

Yes, this is Lindsey after spending time at the Beer Garden in Walker. (Sorry Lindsey, this one is a classic, I had to put it in)

Well-deserved "Welcome Home" shots with friends and family

The family- enjoying some time together, and taking a breath.

So, have a wonderful 4th of July. As I've said many times before, these holidays have a different meaning for us now. Our independence and our freedom come with a cost. And, thank God we have the men and women willing to make the sacrifices to protect it for us every day.

Semper Fi

Prayers for Bri

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Thanks Aunt Kathy, we want all the prayers we can get!!

We're Plugging Along

(UPDATED 6-17-09) We're supposed to hold on sending packages again- they haven't been able to fix the problem as yet.)

Brian's 22nd birthday is coming up on Monday, June 15. It's hard to believe that he's only 22 with all he is experiencing (and has already experienced)- and at the same time his mom and I continue to view him as the same mischievious little boy he always was growing up. Brian always added a little excitement in whatever he did (and certainly contributed to my gray hair- or what's left of it)- he's just continuing that today.

The weather in Iraq is really heating up. Brian told me that the other day it hit 115 degrees- at 11:00 a.m. But, he said the evenings get down to around 80 so it's tolerable.

Laura and I are doing fine. I guess you can say we're plugging along. Deployments are tough. We're in week 13 and we still have a ways to go. The tough parts are (like today) when he tells us he's heading out on "a mission" tonight and we won't hear from him for a few days. These are the times you just have to pray a little harder and be patient until we hear from him again when he returns. It's certainly challenging.

We've been watching the Colbert Report the past week as he's been filming the show from Camp Victory in Bagdhad (Once You Go Iraqi- You'll Never Go Backi). It's been a really good show and nice to hear about all of the good these guys and gals are doing over there since you don't hear about it in the mainstream media. It makes things seem worthwhile, and makes us feel a little closer to Brian as we watch.

Here are a few pictures Brian sent from wherever he is in Iraq. (Interesting quarters)

So, if you get a chance shoot Brian an e-mail on his birthday. I'm sure he'll appreciate it. And, I also want to reiterate his (and our) appreciation for all of your support in the past, and continued support in the future.

Semper Fi

Much To Remember

It was a good Memorial Day.

I had an urge to go to a Memorial Day ceremony somewhere and ended up at Hillcrest Cemetary in Hackensack. The little cemetary sits back in the woods off of a dirt road. The veterans memorial at the entry faced rows of white crosses representing those buried there. Despite being cloudy and windy on Monday- the setting was perfect, and the simple program (brought to you by the Hackensack VFW #202) had a lot of meaning for me. I guess whether you are at Arlington Cemetary in Virginia, or Hillcrest Cemetary in Hackensack, Minnesota, the purpose is the same; taking the time to remember and appreciate.

A year ago today Grandpa Cliff passed on. Brian was so disappointed that he wasn't here as he was just returning home from his first deployment. But, we know Cliff knows he was with us in heart and spirit.




So, we've taken a little time today to remember Cliff and the pride he had in his children and in all his grandchildren. We're certain he continues to be very proud of what they have all become.


Brian used to love to put on his uniform the few times he was home to go to see Cliff. When he would walk in the room you could see the smile grow on Cliff's face and a light shine from his eyes. Cliff was proud of his Marine and his Marine was proud of and loved his grandpa.

As it should be.

Semper Fi

Memorial Day Here- It's Hot In Iraq

[NOTE: Please note Brian's new address on the left; They were having a little trouble forwarding mail from their last FOB- He said this new address should take care of it.]


The average temperature in Bagdhad this week is 105 degrees. And, its not even summer yet.

Many received a phone call from Iraq over the past week. Brian called his Mom on Mother's Day and she received flowers from him on her birthday. Brian loves his mom and he's doing an unbelieveable job of staying in touch when he can.

We were humbled by the e-mail he sent last week requesting us to say a prayer for the fallen brothers and sisters this past Armed Services Day. It put things in perspective again on what is important in life- and is evidence of the patriotism and sacrifice offered by these young men and women who are serving (and have served) our country. Our outlook on many things has changed as a result of this experience.

This weekend we observe Memorial Day. I have to be honest, I didn't appreciate the significance of this "holiday" until we began living as a military family. The day has a different meaning to us today.

Memorial Day was originally proclaimed a "holiday" in 1868 as a means to remember those who sacrificed their lives in the Civil War. It continued as a Civil War memorial event until after World War I when the sacrifice of those who had given their lives in any war was recognized. That's what we observe today.

So, as we head up to our cabins, or have a day off, or do whatever we plan to do this weekend, let's take another moment to say a prayer for those who have offered the ultimate sacrifice for this country. I don't think Brian would mind if I used his words again of his request to say a prayer for "the fallen brothers and sisters who have given their life for what we have in our homes. I would ask you say a prayer for them and their families in honor of their sacrifice to our nation."

A Poem From 1915

We cherish too the Poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led,
It seems to signal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies

Semper Fi

Happy Mother's Day Laura

Happy Mother's Day Laura Lu

The Best Marine Mom Ever!!!!

My Marine's Sentinel

Copyright © 2004 Sandra Lee James

A Proud Marine Mom

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When my son joined the Corps, I asked favor of God,

To watch over my son and take care of his squad.

And on days when His watch is needed elsewhere,

For those times, my request was a special prayer.

----

There was something I'd heard that's unique to the Corps,

Something I'd never heard of before.

When I heard the story, it reassured my heart,

Because it's something that sets Marines apart.

----

When a Marine is assigned to his final squad,

And the man with top rank is none other than God,

He knows for his service, his reward will be great,

For it's only Marines who guard Heaven's Gate.

----

So in my prayer to God, it is this that I asked,

I knew only a Marine could manage the task,

Please search through your ranks for just the right man,

One who knows combat and knows the game plan.

----

For those times when my son finds himself in harm's way,

Please dispatch that sentinel, without delay.

Appoint a Marine to keep watch on my son,

And please send him back home, once his mission is done.

----

I sleep better at night, I know my son's in good hands,

I know God hears my prayers and He understands.

My son doesn't know it, but wherever he's at,

There's a Marine up in heaven who's got his back.

----

Part of A Marine Family

I was driving to a meeting the other day and a large truck pulled up beside me and honked. I looked over (wondering what I did wrong) and the truck driver gave me the thumbs-up and mouthed "Semper Fi". What a great feeling. I was proud.

Brian put USMC stickers on our cars before he left for boot camp and I can't even count the number of times that has happened when other Marines have seen them. I remember when Brian graduated from boot camp and the commander in San Diego giving a wonderful speech about the importance of family and commitment and how we are now part of the Marine Corp family. It really didn't sink in then but has become much more apparent with each encounter we have with other Marines.

Brian and I exchanged e-mails over the past week and I was telling him how proud we all are of what he and his fellow Marines are doing for us. Here's his reply, "You guys are the real heroes cuz the truth is, all of the troops overseas are here because of the families that made them who they are". Just amazing to me. If there is one thing I've learned- others may talk about things- Marines live them.

Most of you know Brian changed his FOB and gave us pretty direct "hints" on where he is now. (I believe the reason he can't come right out and tell us is due to security filters). Lindsey was able to talk to him- (and probably others)- but we missed him this time. But, he sounds good in his e-mails and it sounds like this base is more liveable than where he was before.

I continue to be very apprehensive with the stability of things over there but I have much more confidence in the military leadership and strategic decisions that are being made today. That helps a little. The uncertainty won't go away until he's back home.



Here is a picture of the first time we saw Brian after 13 weeks of boot camp in San Diego. He said he about lost it when he turned "left-face" and we were standing right in front of him. Thirteen weeks seemed like an eternity back then- but as we go through our second deployment it seems like a piece of cake today.


Here is Laura and Brian when he returned home from his first deployment. We can't wait until he's home from this one. We know we have a ways to go. We're just taking it Sunday-to-Sunday; Chow-to-Chow; and praying every day for the safety of all serving over there.



Laura, Lindsey, Jason, and I want to thank everyone who is sending packages, notes, e-mails, etc. It means a lot to us- and I know it means a lot to Brian. Please remember- you are also an important part of our "Marine Family". You have our heartfelt gratitude.

Semper Fi

A Quiet Week From Iraq

Well, it's been a quiet week in Lake Wobegon.

Laura received a real quick e-mail from Brian telling her he got our package, but he was busy, tired, and had to keep it short. He had told us earlier getting communication to us is likely to be more sporadic- we're living with it. So, we weren't able to talk to him this week. It's been quiet.

We had hoped his Battalion would keep their website updated at least a little bit to give us some idea of the bigger picture of what's going on over there- but that's not happening. We're following a couple of other websites to try to stay as informed as we can.

I had lunch this week with a friend (Brad Chandler) and came to find out his "second son" is a Marine and currently deployed with a MEU. Honest to God, it was wonderful to be able to sit and talk with someone who can relate to all of the emotions involved with this. It's also nice to realize you're not nuts with the feelings you're carrying after-all.

But, Brad has taken it a step further. He is also on the board of Tribute To The Troops. This is a motorcyle group (similar to the Patriot Riders) that holds charity events, programs, and other services for wounded servicemen and for the families of fallen soldiers. He shared some of the stories of their past efforts- and they were quite moving. It's so encouraging to know that there continue to be these people out there, making a difference, and helping you to appreciate that the sacrifices we are all required to make sometimes are worth it.

Here's The Link to Tribute For The Troops if you want to take a look at it:

http://www.tributetothetroops.org/

Picture of Brian receiving his Eagle, Globe, Anchor and becoming a Marine:

Thanks to all for your continued support and prayers. We'll keep you posted.

Semper Fi

Week 5

Brian called us unexpectantly on "Easter Eve". We got the call around 7:30 p.m. Central (which is 3:30 a.m. Iraq-time). He had just returned from a mission and they were given some free phone-time for Easter so he wanted to take advantage of it. You could tell he was exhausted but also had some adrenaline pumping at the same time. He had been on recon since 8 in the morning and just got back from the mission at 3:00 a.m. I always ask too many questions about the specifics of what he is doing when he tells us this stuff (which are irrelevant because he can't tell me anything anyway). He just told me he'd have to fill us in when he gets back. That's the part I hate- because your head starts filling up with wild-ass thoughts.

As we mentioned in our last post- he hadn't been to his FOB yet when he called as they were called out to this other area right after they arrived to do whatever it was they were supposed to do. He hadn't been able to change his clothes in two weeks as all of their gear was sent to where he was supposed to go originally. And, he said the sleeping arrangements where he was at were challenging.

While it was great to hear from him- Laura and I spent the week a little on the melancholy side. First of all you worry about all of the things you don't know and have absolutely no control over, then you feel guilty for having the ability to change your clothes, get into a warm bed, and eat a decent meal. Irrational, we know; but it's the reality just the same.

But, this morning we received an e-mail from him and he sounds great (so, we are feeling better - just part of the emotional roller-coaster). He has now arrived at his FOB and has been able to reunite with the rest of his unit and his stuff. He also received some of your packages- so thanks a ton. And, he loves getting the e-mails. He did say that they may be moving and his mailing address may change- but I'll let you all know when/if that happens down the road. He also mentioned he may not have regular access to phones and the internet- so be patient if you don't hear from him frequently.

Picture of Brian when he went to Sarah Wallek's class after he came home from Boot Camp. He really loves being with the kids.

So, we made it through Week 5. It already seems a lot longer than that and this one was a little tougher for some reason. But, we made it. Take care and say a prayer when you can for all who are really doing some extraordinary things in support of our country.

Semper Fi

We Finally Got A Chance To Talk

I had planned on writing an upbeat posting as we were finally able to talk with Brian the other day. Then, this morning we learn that 5 of our soldiers were killed today in a suicide bomb attack in Mosul. These are the "gut-check times" when you get hit with the reality of it all. These are the times you understand what our military continues to face over there and the cowardly methods the enemy uses to fight their battle. I try to maintain a Christian view of things in most areas of my life- but I have a tough time dealing with these whack-jobs. Please take a minute when you can to say a prayer for those fallen heroes and their families.

But, we were able to talk with Brian the other morning. It was wonderful to hear his voice and he sounded good. As expected, he wasn't able to tell us where he was or what he was doing, but hearing his voice was the main thing anyway. He did tell us he wasn't at the Forward Operating Base (FOB) he originally told us he would be stationed as they were called out into another area to carry-out some missions. It sounds like they are going to be moving the Marines around.

He sent us a couple of pictures that were pretty cool:

This one is of the group of veterans and citizens in Maine who were at the air force base at 12:30 a.m. lined-up to thank the Marines and wish them well before they headed off to Iraq (that's Brian in the middle). I actually got a little teary when I visualized this large group of Marines (including our son) getting ready to head off to "do their job" for us, with the group of Americans standing in a line simply to tell them "thanks". We are very proud. I wish I could have been there.





And this one is of Brian at the base in Maine before heading out. What a good looking Marine!!





So, we've made it 4 weeks- and we still have a ways to go. Thank God for the internet as I know many are staying connected with Brian that way- and he loves to hear from you. He doesn't know when he'll be able to pick up any mail as he's been moving around but feel free to send anything when you get a chance. As I've said before, his FOB is a pit so any of the "basics" will be appreciated.

Again, say a prayer for those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for our country- and for the safety of all of those still serving.

Semper Fi

Just Waiting

As I've said before, this is the tough part. We still haven't talked directly to Brian but have received e-mails and have been following his Facebook page. We try to connect in whatever manner we can right now.

A friend of mine asked me if we get a little anxious when the phone rings or when the doorbell rings while he's deployed- the simple answer is "yes". I think we're better than we were when we started this journey- but, there is always that anxiousness that won't go away until he's back in the states. You learn to live with it as best you can.

It sounds like he's already experiencing his share of sandstorms over there and he's told me he's been really "busy". Not sure what that means in Marine code- but it sounds like he's been doing his thing.

We did send off a box of supplies on Monday. We put in socks, t-shirts, some easy-to-make food, Kool-Aid, cigarettes, soap, shampoo, etc. etc. Just to let you know- where he is at is a pit- and I don't believe they have access to a normal "px" so whatever you can send would be appreciated I'm sure.

So, we continue to wait and do what we can to support those guys. We carry our cell phones wherever we are and keep the land-line handy in case he calls. He's been good at staying connected so I'm sure he'll get in touch with us when he can.

I'm including here another picture of Brian and his team before he headed out on a mission during his last deployment (Brian's on the right). The marine on the left is "Crazy" Chris Nims. He's seen a lot of action and has been a good friend to Brian along the way (Brian can share some of the "Nims Stories" with you when he gets back). The marine in the middle is Staff Sergeant Aaron Wade. He is also a great friend to Brian and has been a really good mentor. Brian said this team worked extremely well together when they completed missions during his last deployment- but that the team he is with today is even better.

And, I thought it appropriate to include another picture of a marine that has some relevance to our blog. This is a picture of LCpl Brady Gustofson, from Edina, Minnesota who just received the Navy Cross (highest Navy award and second only to the Congressional Medal of Honor) for his service in Afghanistan. LCpl Gustofson was wounded when an IED went through his Humvee. Despite being wounded, he manned the machine gun in the vehicle and fired over 400 rounds (had to reload twice) at the enemy to protect his buddies. He is 21. This is the type of service and commitment these men and women provide for us in very dangerous situations. I just wish our country appreciated it more.

So, we'll continue to wait and hopefully hear from Brian soon. Keep all of our service members who are serving in Iraq and Afghanistan in your prayers- and send them a note or a package when you get a chance.

Semper Fi

For those who don't have facebook...

I thought I'd keep up on Bri's facebook posts. They aren't always cheerful, but I always breathe a little sigh of relief when he posts a new one.

March 25, 2009
Brian Zdychnec having such a grand ole time.............. hope you can catch the sarcasim
7:40am · Comment · LikeUnlike

Our 6Th Anniversary in Iraq and An E-Mail So Far

Well, this past Thursday we reached the 6th anniversary of the war in Iraq. I'm sure we all recall watching the "shock and awe" of the war when we entered Bagdhad in 2003. Who would have thought we would still be there 6 years later- and Brian is now there as a part of it. It's pretty unreal to us.

We received a brief e-mail from Brian this morning telling us everything is moving along as planned and he'll get in touch with us when he gets a minute and they get their connections all established (we don't know where he is at this point). We talked to him very briefly from Kuwait last Saturday and said he didn't know when he would get a chance to call again. He told us it could be quite awhile- so we've just been patient. This is the tough part as all you can do is just wait.

He did tell us when we talked to him that on their way out of the country they made a stop at an air force base in Maine. They arrived around 12:30 a.m. and there was a contingent of military veterans waiting for them when they arrived to welcome them, thank them, and wish them well. Brian said it was pretty cool. We can be a really neat country when we want to be.

He said in his e-mail that he would send us a list of the things they can use over there. I'm attaching a link here from MarineParents.com that provides a pretty comprehensive list of items. He did say when he was home that socks are a big item- and he really liked getting the Kool-Aid packets and some of the "quick-food" stuff we sent to him the last time. It's going to get hotter than crap there over the next few months so anything that can help with trying to stay cool and keeping the fluids flowing will be good.

http://www.carepackageproject.com/carepkg-project-needs-list.asp

Some Other Photos I Liked

The landscape of Kuwait (From last deployment) Just a lot of sand.



This is a picture of some kids welcoming home the Minnesota National Guard when they went through Walker on their way home to Bemidji in 2007 (cute kids). If my facts are right these soldiers served the longest deployment in Iraq- almost 2 years- of any other military unit in the country. Talk about sacrifice. It was pretty neat to watch them go through and be part of the whole deal.


We'll certainly keep everyone updated as we hear anything. Thanks for your support and prayers.

Semper Fi

Neither One Is "Better"

I've been really surprised with the number of people who have told me "at least he's not in Afghanistan" when I'm asked where Brian is serving. I know some people say it to make us feel better. But many others actually seem to think it's all over, we've won, no more combat, nothing more to do since we're going to start bringing some of our troops home.

No doubt, the situation in Iraq has improved since the military was finally provided the resources and management to do what they needed to do. Our country (and many families) sacrificed a lot along the way to get us here. But, the folks over there now aren't just sitting in the sand and eating bon-bons just because our politicians say we're drawing-down or because we don't hear about Iraq as much in the media. There are missions still taking place and the enemy we are fighting is still nuts. As we have seen in the past, the landscape over there changes in an instant. A sign over the exit to one of our bases over there says it best, "Complacency Kills".

There are still over 140,000 sons, brothers, fathers, mothers, wives, and daughters sacrificing for us over there every day. They are sacrificing precious time away from family and friends and putting their lives out there each day. Iraq is still dangerous and (in my opinion) still a mess. And, despite what our own views are of why we are there- most are completing their missions without question. They are "just doing their job" (I've heard that a lot)

Make no mistake, Afghanistan is extremely dangerous now and we pray every day for the troops that are serving there. But, from my perspective, neither place is "better". As long as there are still casualties and sacrifices being made in either place and as long as both remain unstable, despite what the politicians communicate or media says (or doesn't say), we're still at war in both.

For those who have served in Iraq in the past, are serving now, and will be serving in the future- I hope our country doesn't become complacent- or more naive.

Semper Fi

Brian's Address- And Other Stuff

We've connected with Brian a couple of times over the past few days - he's obviously got a lot going on right now- but we did get his address. I've posted it off to the left here- so feel free to use it whenever you can. We'll try to get a list of things they can use while they're over there. There are also some web-sites you can use to help out- I'll try to post some of them out here when I get a minute.

Some trivia on the address- (and in case you care) FPO- stands for Fleet Post Office (administered through the navy) and AP stands for Armed Forces Pacific. The zip codes are used the same way we use them privately- just through a military postal service. I'm learning more every day (and Laura thinks I'm nuts for even wondering about it).

We won't be posting when he's actually leaving- or where he's going (except Iraq). Sorry. This is one of the "military rules" for e-mails and blogs- and Brian was very clear to me (on several occasions) to make sure I didn't violate the rule.

Laura and I are doing ok. It's always a huge shock to the system when you have the brief period of chaos and activity- and then it all quiets down again very quickly. We've had our moments- but overall we're doing ok. Moving into "deployment mode" is a lot different than when he's on base and "in-country". It's also tougher to hang-up the phone now when we've finished talking. So, we'll give ourselves a little time to adjust.

Thought I'd post a couple of pictures from Laura's spaghetti dinner with everyone last week when Brian was home. Once again, thanks to all family and friends who showed up- it meant a lot to us.

This one is with Laura and baby Brody Henry (Megan and Justin's baby). Don't tell me Laura isn't a natural with babies.

It also meant a lot to all of us to have my Dad spend some time with us. He was able to spend some real quality time with his grandson and I know it meant a lot to both of them. Thanks again Dad.

And, here is one of my favorite pictures of Brian and his buddies at Camp Pendleton (Brian is on the far right). They had just completed some Urban Combat Training and had this picture taken at the site. Quite the crew- those guns are huge.

The postings may get a little more sporadic for awhile as we wait to establish connections again. That will likely not happen until they reach their destination and possibly as much as a month or longer before he can actually call or e-mail (we'll get the e-mail address to you too- assuming they have access where they are going). But, we'll keep you as informed as we can.

Thanks again for all of your support. Keep all of our troops in your prayers as they are all doing amazing things to protect us and making unbelievable sacrifices for us. Let's not forget it.

Semper Fi

St. Michael

In the mass we attended where Brian was blessed, at the end the entire congregation did a prayer to St. Michael the Archangel. I thought it was a good sign and is one that is fitting for the next few months for all of us!

St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil;
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray:
And do thou, o Prince of the heavenly host,
by the power of God,
Thrust into hell Satan and all evil spirits
who wander through the world for the ruin of souls.
Amen

Linds

Going To The Airport Still Sucks

With as many times as we've now had to do this- you would think it would get easier. It doesn't. It's especially tough when you realize and accept it's going to be 7 months before you'll see each other again. But, we did ok.

Over the past few years we've learned to live with dates or markers you put out there to try to put some context around all of this. Leaving for bootcamp, graduating from bootcamp; coming home on leave, heading back from leave; leaving on first deployment, home from first deployment; home for the holidays, going back from the holidays; these are all the "markers" we've had so far. It seems like the first part always lasts way too long, and the second part goes by way too fast. Now we'll be adding leaving for second deployment (March) and returning from second deployment (some time in October) to the list.

The last day always sucks. You try to spend some quality time together- but you know it's coming to an end for awhile. It's a weird emotional flow- like a roller-coaster. But, it's reality- and you just try to deal with it as best you can.

Brian had friends over and spent most of the morning packing and getting his gear together. Lindsey came over with the puppies and we took the picture here just before we headed out the door to say our "good-byes" and head to the airport.

Brian wanted to give his mother a "Mommy Hug" at breakfast one morning- just to show you that some things don't change- even in Marines.

And, this photo was taken on his last deployment while they were on a mission- just to show you the other side. (It's no wonder we're schizophrenic)

But, overall we did well. It was a wonderful week together and we are thankful for that. Brian is back at Camp Pendleton for a few days and will let us know what's going on later. We'll make sure to get his address out to everyone when we get it.

Semper Fi

The Beginning- A Wonderful Week Together

Hello to all. We're going to be using this blog to try to keep you informed of what's going on as Brian enters the next part of his Marine journey. There will be a lot we can't post or won't be able to say (for security reasons), but hopefully this will help everyone stay connected and as informed as we can. And, I'm sure we will be including some of our political views on things as its very tough to keep the politics and reality separate when you have "skin in the game". Those of you who received an "invite" will be able to post your own thoughts- you just need to sign-up for a Google account- which is very simple.

We had a wonderful week together as Brian made it home last Saturday morning for his "pre-deployment leave". Thanks to all of you who participated in Laura's "spaghetti dinner" last Saturday. It meant a lot to us to have you here. A special thanks to Michael's dad who made the journey from Dallas to spend some time with us.

Last Sunday, we all went to Mass together and Brian was blessed by Father Tom again (we also had this done on his last deployment). It never hurts to have the "Big Guy" watching over him and his buddies. Father Tom is a very special priest who stressed to us it is "an honor and a priviledge" to do this for us. Thanks again Father Tom.

The week went by too fast, as they always do. We've had the opportunity to spend some real quality time together. It is these times when you appreciate what is really important in life. We'll be heading to the airport on Sunday afternoon as he'll return to Camp Pendleton for a few days before they all head out.

Keep all of our troops in your prayers. We'll keep you filled in as we can.